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Tips for Giving Feedback Without Causing Defensiveness

By : Rick Mar 29, 2017 | 5:51 pm

Giving negative feedback is difficult. I never know what words to say. So, I end up sugar coating it or avoiding it altogether. Sound familiar? If you struggle with the words to say and who doesn’t, this article contains some handy templates you can use:

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